Cambodia is one of a country among others in Asia where a family member needs to stay with parents at home even though you are an adult. Only if you are not single anymore they will let you go. Now here is the reason why adults should be away from family members or parents. As my personal experience going back to the family is returning to the past. In this case, I found that away from family when you in focus of your arm to help them develop, you must get out and keep building your strength until you could come back.
You might thought that staying with family you can help somehow. If you take a look at the big picture, you can help them much better after you can help yourself. When in the house, the craziness in your family will never change, and it will not change even if you go back to live with them. No matter how strong you are or feel confident. You would never have any quiet time and you would not be able to focus on your own future. If you are there with them, they will come to you with every little single problem. They will not try to solve their small problem by themselves because they know that you will do everything for them. For example, when you try to give some advice to your parents the reflection as result you might feel hurt. Imagine your parents won’t listen to you, but they feel sorry to themselves. You can always going to help your parents because they are old, but it is their choice of life as well. And how are you going to help them is how are you going to build up yourself. For the family needs, they will never have enough. There is always something. Even though you are adult, but parents can still give you “tough love”. When you can find your own a peace and quiet you will learn that being away from home is given you more time to keep focus on your dreams.
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