Don’t let yourself believe too much in a destiny that you no longer have from your childhood, there might be a wonderful or the worst nightmare. It is changing now because in the present moment, you are in the state of what we call NOW. Thought of a dream you were willing to reach is a path to get you in the right direction. You can't give up to your destiny because it started to change the day you are growing up.
To be honest, I was always frustrated in my country of how girls aren’t treated the same as men, and how poor citizens are poorer, the most important change of my society. I lived, and see with many talented poor people and always wondered if they could study like others. My dream of change was just a dream, and no matter how much I had to fight for change, the voice in my head told me “it is way too impossible”. I dropped the dream and knew that my only destiny for me is to live like this without hope of change.
A true story of the mind, was when I had taught at the Volunteer Development Poverty Children School (VDPCA) as a volunteer to help children for an entire month and I had no chance to met my mentor (now a sister) a single time. On the very last day, and just because she spoke Japanese, I noticed her. When I noticed her, I blocked out those voices who said that I have only one destination where I had always thought of hopeless of my dream. If she had been speaking English in that lesson, I would have never noticed her.
I had always wondered why her speaking Japanese took my attention on that one single day!!! ( the last day of hers) So, if I have a destiny...why I met such a great mentor. That day was such a wonderful world for me because it was the very first time of life to meet such an academic/talented person like her who is strong enough to motivate me back to the path and had the love to do it, and would never give up on opened up my mind again. And because of that, I am here right now, and I can spread my message to many others.
The wisdom here is don't let your fears control you and not allow you to accept love. Don’t even let a thought of “one destiny” to turn you in nowhere. Try not to let people's own unhappiness with their own lives make you think you have to save them or sacrifice your own happiness and dreams -- that isn't love at all. Remember, LOVE is both ways, and there is never an expectation for that love from the other person. Love never has expectations. Please try to see the future YOU can see for yourself, and don't let anyone take that away from you. The chance is right there, but those voices are blocking you from it CAN’T DO.
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