The most precious gift you can give your children is "Time", not the childminder's time or anyone else, but "your" time. You can't compensate for not doing so by giving them money or material things either. Always drop your tiredness for a bit then quick attention to your child to hug them it will create positive energy of loving-kindness. Raising your family is "Your" responsibility and no one else's. You need to teach them the importance of good manners and respect. This is to say for everything possible. Teach them the difference between right and wrong. For example; there is something that tells your heart not to do, to feel pain to feel is not right. Reward them when they got it right and that getting it wrong has consequences. Make sure they understand that we are all responsible and accountable for our actions and teach them the importance of a good work ethic. Above all, be a good role model and lead by example. If you can do all of that, they will be fine and turn out to be good people whether your child turns out to be a successful high flyer or whatever greater if they are good, reliable, hardworking, caring, and honest people. Then you have done your job well.
Being a Parent is the hardest job in the world. It is the most rewarding job in the world if you see it really deeply.
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