As a human being, we could not be satisfied to what they see, hear, and judge. Either you are doing such great things people will give you a comment on it. Once you keep going with your own dream and accidentally fail they will give you another comment. Even you are having such passion within yourself, people still give you a comment. At the end it is such a bad effect to whoever are in the situation of receiving comment, then ending up dropping their life dream.
One of the worst things, people would tell you “hey it is raining!’ while you are in the rain. The difficulty of life is getting worst and it is not because of yourself, but others. Part of the world people is tricking each other just to get what is more than other. In most societies, if you do not know how to keep projecting your feeling out of judgment, you will not survive at all. No matter how strong a person is, the judgments of others will be simply turn you into something strange. There is a proverb in my country “many drops of water could break a big rock.” We are trying to avoid of judgmental about many things, but very unfortunate because we are living in this society full of commenting on each other.
We should learn the way of keeping ourselves stable by using negative encouragement when we are feeling down, or upset. Those are working on me in my situations. Of course, the majority of people needed positive motivation and that makes sense. Ask many of us would know that after survive from difficulties that we have faced with, after we kind of feel good. But how can we get through it!? There are many proverbs and phrases written in the books new paper, or internet to give you some idea about it, but have you ever thought of protecting yourself by accepting the judgment. When you allow yourself to listen to whoever gives you a comment, it will help you to function yourself and to let yourself learn to be calm, and yet you will be pushing those people away.
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